The saying "Perfect is the enemy of Good" is something that comes into play with my quilting.
I took a moment to look up the origin of that saying, which is attributed to Voltaire. I've also found references like, Robert Watson-Watt talking about a "cult of the imperfect", in which he stated, "Give them the third best to go on with; the second best comes too late, the best never comes". Even Shakespeare had a thought on this, with King Lear's Duke of Albany, warns of "striving to better, oft we mar what's well" and in Sonnet 103:
Were it not sinful then, striving to mend,
To mar the subject that before was well?
This weekend, I was in a virtual Sew-Day with the Quilt Guild I am a member of and I realized I was sitting there agonizing over a border for a mystery quilt that did not have perfect points. Should I rip it all apart? Would I be any better off if I did? How much time would that consume? I decided to ask for a little perspective from my quilting family.
It was they who said that unless I was seeking a competition-level quilt, leave the borders and send the quilt on its way to be quilted. Take the lessons I learned from piecing it together and recall the memories of working through the clues and change it from an object of frustration to a piece of imperfect art that someone in my life would thoroughly appreciate.
What do you think? PS - this was also my triad colour quilt - Green, Orange and Purple. Using a triad is supposed to allow the quilt to look extra vibrant.
I give this one piece of advice freely - if in doubt, seek a second opinion from your quilting family!